MOUNT MADONNA SCHOOL
Interview with Alyse
Nelson
Deputy Director, President's
Interagency on Women Washington, D.C.
May 18, 2000
Alison Alderdice: When did you realize that
you were going to dedicate your life to helping women
around the world?
Alyse Nelson:
My goodness. Lets start with the whopper! I didn't think
it was possible to decide to dedicate myself to something
like that. I think that you can be really passionate
about something in your life and not be able to see
where that fits. When I was in college, I thought, well
maybe I'll go work in a consulting firm, or I'll go
to graduate school, because I'm not sure what I want
to do, which is a really bad thing to do; don't do that.
Don't go to school because you don't see any other options.
Then I heard about the Beijing Women's Conference, which
was the UN First World Conference on Women. Fifty
thousand women were going to gather in China to talk
about human rights. I thought wow! That was really going
to be a fascinating experience. And not only just women,
but these were women advocates and activists around
the world. I thought, that's going to be amazing. They
talked a lot about how many young women were going to
be there. I thought, how amazing would it be to meet
a woman just like me from Somalia, or from Latin America,
and hear about what her life is like. I wanted so much
to understand what international women's issues were
all about, but there weren't any classes really offered,
and there wasn't a lot of newspaper coverage. Since
there weren't a lot of classes you could take on issues
around the world and how they were affecting women,
and I thought the best thing to do would be to go to
this conference and meet these women. Then I could find
out what this is all about. Going to the conference
was really a transformational experience. First off,
I went alone. I tried to get my sister to come with
me at the last minute, but it was too late to register.
That was pretty scary. I didn't actually get the right
kind of visa for the Chinese government. I got a tourist
visa, rather than a conference visa, so I wasn't exactly
kosher there. I was really scared. But I remember flying
from Singapore to Beijing, and the energy on that plane
was incredible; it was just full with women who were
going to that conference. Fifty thousand women around
the world, coming together to talk about where we were
going to go in the next century, which is just so amazing.
And here I was twenty-one years old, I was in between
my junior and senior year at college, and I thought
wow, this is going to change my life for sure. It
rained the entire week. I learned a tremendous amount.
Many women took me under their wing and were really
helpful to me. I ended up staying in an Africa section.
The Chinese government wanted to sort of keep us all
with our people, I don't know why, so they made these
barracks where people would stay. It was so new the
cement was still wet. They built up a whole town for
these fifty thousand women who were staying. They didn't
want us actually in Beijing, so they moved this big
conference to this outside venue in Wy Ro, which is
the town that existed on no map before this conference.
We stayed in these barracks's, as my dad referred to
them, and we had a little padlock that looked like something
you'd find in a cereal box, on the outside of our door.
So basically, they could lock us in, but we couldn't
lock ourselves in. It was pretty interesting. I roomed
with two women. It was an Africa section that I ended
up in just randomly. Someone actually gave me their
room. It was incredible. These African women are just
amazing. They would just sing all night, and they wore
these incredible gowns that they had painted just for
the conference. I remember, the women I stayed with,
one from Eritrea, one from Ethiopia, and if you know
the history on these countries, they've been at civil
war for decades. And here were these two women rooming
together, and at first I recognized that there was some
tension between them, but by the end of the conference
they were going home and dedicated to working together.
I remember sitting late at night in this tent in the
middle of China, and hearing about how this young woman
who was my age had to flee her country because she was
going to be basically sold to another family to be a
bride of this man that she didn't want to marry, and
how she didn't have control over her life at all. I
realized how lucky I was, that every decision I make,
from going to China, to picking the school I wanted
to go to, to everything in my life, I get to decide
for the most part. Then I listened to this woman who
at seven years old was told basically what was going
to happen in her life. And she fled from Somalia, I
think to Kenya first, when she was seven. Seven years
old, and she left home because she didn't want to have
to lead this life. Somehow she got herself to China,
and here I was in this tent, in the middle of the rain,
in the middle of the night, talking to these women.
It was just so, so transformative and incredible, and
I thought, I would love to dedicate myself to this.
I mean I don't know what my life holds, certainly, but
I would love to be involved in these issues. I would
love to work on these issues. I'm so passionate about
these issues, but I didn't think there was any job to
do with something like that. When I was at the conference
I actually met Theresa Loar, who you all met, and she
was the head of the US delegation in Beijing. At one
point, I was working on a young women's bill of rights
for the conference. They didn't really include a lot
of issues that affected young women in their platform,
so we decided to do a separate sort of the young women's
bill of rights. It talked about education and the sort
of things that are important to us. I was on a panel
at the actual UN conference in Beijing and presented
this. Theresa didn't know my name, I knew her name,
but I didn't know what she looked like. She didn't know
my name, but she knew what I looked like, because she
heard me talk on the panel. So we sort of knew of each
other at the conference. Then when I went back, I heard
her speak at another conference. Then I invited her
to come up and speak at a follow-up forum that I was
doing to interest young women in Boston, where I was
going to school at the time, engaged in what happened
in Beijing. I first talked to Theresa on the phone,
and as you all know, Theresa is just a fabulous person.
She's really warm and wonderful. So, I'm calling up
this woman at the White House, to ask her if she can
come to my little conference up at my college. I remember
I was so nervous, and she happened to pick up the phone,
which is really random that the director of the office
would answer the outside line. I started talking to
what I thought was her assistant, just sort of talking,
and feeling really comfortable about what I was saying.
Then she says oh, yeah, I'd love to come. You know,
and I'm thinking, my gosh, I'm talking to the director.
We talked a little bit more about my conference. I really
had pictured her maybe a little bit snobby because she's
this White House woman, you know. But she came to the
conference and she was so warm. She talked to me a little
bit more about what their office does, and I heard about
what the President's Council does. After my conference,
she invited me to come down and work with her. And of
course, in the beginning she said just come down for
six months. We're going to do this big satellite broadcast,
One Year After Beijing, looking at the progress we've
made. We'd love to have really dynamic and interested
young women who are passionate about this to help us
get more young women involved. I came down, I thought
okay, six months, unpaid internship at the White House;
I was going to go to graduate school, but I thought,
you know what, that's pretty cool. So I went down and
did that, and I really thought it would be six months.
But here I am almost five years later. Once you get
involved in these kinds of issues that you're passionate
about, you have a really hard time walking away from
them. That's the long answer of how I got involved
in all this. I think that I've had an amazing time.
I've been able to meet some of the most amazing women.
When you go out there, you realize, this is why I'm
doing this! I'm helping to change this woman's life,
and this is pretty incredible. I think the strides we've
made, because we have a Secretary of State like Madeleine
Albright, and a First Lady like Hillary Clinton are
tremendous. We're working with two extremely dynamic
women who say something, and then they call us and say
you're going to carry that out, right? They're going
to push to carry out the rhetoric they put forward.
It has allowed us to make major inroads. It's incredible.
Dov Rohan: If you were hiring someone to do
your job, what qualities would you look for?
Alyse Nelson:
Passion! Big passion, and that's hard because I hire
a lot of interns to come into our office. Someone can
have a stellar resume, but if I'm talking to them and
I think, would they photocopy forever, because they're
so excited about the document they're photocopying?
I mean, when I walked into our office on my first day
as an unpaid intern, I saw a picture of the First Lady
speaking in Beijing. When I was at the conference I
didn't actually get into the room where she was speaking,
I was sort of on the outside little room, but I could
hear her. After her speech, I was crying. It was so
amazing, this speech she gave to all these women from
around the world. It was just incredible. I'd never
been so proud to be American. It sounds really trite,
but really, it was a pretty amazing moment. I didn't
know what she looked like that day, or what she was
wearing. I walked into the office, and there was a picture
of her speaking in Beijing, and I just started crying.
I realized that I was getting to work in this office,
and carry out what she cares about. It's just amazing!
I always look for that, I would look for someone who
loves this so much. That's all you need. I mean, you
can learn everything else, but you can't learn passion.
I couldn't work our fax machine. I was getting blank
pages and they called Theresa and said, "I'm getting
blank pages from your intern." So you can learn anything,
but you can't learn that.
Katie Fayram: In Tuesday's interview with
Theresa Loar, she told us that now her work is telling
these stories, telling your story about the women
that you've met and the women that you've influenced.
So after this, what do you see for the next step in
Vital Voices?
Alyse Nelson: Well, I think
Vital Voices has done amazing work to really crack the
foreign policy system. As you may have noticed, walking
around the State Department, there's certainly a lot
of men here, there are also a lot of women, but there
are certainly a lot more men in higher level positions.
Except for the women who surround the Secretary, her
deputy chief of staff, her chief of staff, her counsel,
are all women and I think that's great progress. Anyway,
I think that for Vital Voices, it's been astounding
to really crack that system, to really integrate women
into foreign policy. You know, we're getting cables
in from post every day, talking about trafficking in
women, violence against women, women's political right
of participation. No longer are people saying why am
I worried about what is happening to women in that country?
Now they're saying to us, oh, my gosh, can you help
me help my women? When I first came to the State
Department, Theresa said your job is going to be to
really track the cable traffic. There was no cable traffic
on women. There were no cables that were coming in from
our embassies. Cable traffic is our reporting system
from the embassies. There wasn't anything saying well
this is what's happening to the women. We started sending
cables out, saying, well what about the women? Is there
violence against women in your country? We had to start
asking questions, and we realized we were probing the
system. I think that it took four years, but at this
point we really are consultants to this institution,
where they come to us and we help them. We're not having
bang down the doors anymore, and that's pretty astounding.
What I think the next step for Vital Voices is to look
at how do we do that outside of the US government? How
do we influence other governments, which certainly we
do from our own government to an extent. But how can
we support more of their work? How do we work with them
better, in getting them to set up similar systems like
we did with our President's Interagency Council on Women.
How can we work with the private sector? Our economy
is in great shape; how can we look at all these new
dot.com folks who are making tons of money, and say
you should invest in these issues. We're really looking
at sort of taking it to the next step, which is really
gaining mainstream support for these issues, where no
longer where people will only talk about these issues
as feminist issues, but they'll say these are issues
that are the smart thing to look at. They're not just
women's issues because dealing with them is helping
us build strong economies, stronger democracies, stronger
political systems. Integrating women is not only the
right thing to do, it's the smart thing to do, as the
Secretary always says. That's what I think the next
step is for Vital Voices. Vital Voices is a group
of women and men from the private sector, corporations
and non-governmental organizations, and individuals
who really care. They wonder if when the First Lady's
not the First Lady anymore, and the Secretary of State's
not the Secretary of State anymore, will this continue
in government? It may, it may not. We think it will
because it has so much clout. People really recognize
that name brand, Vital Voices, as being the women's
foreign policy, democracy-building effort. But we want
to make sure it really does continue, so we're going
to be basically building a 501c3 (non-profit) right
now, called the Vital Voices Global Partnership. It's
pretty incredible; they're getting major private sector
investors, and they've gotten communications companies
engaged. There's a lot of support out there for these
issues, and I think it's all a matter of communicating,
getting the support.
Jahmin Lerum: Your group has particular foreign
policy initiatives that relate to women. Are there
times when the dominant foreign policy conflicts with
the work you're doing? How do you deal with those
situations?
Alyse Nelson: When you
say dominant foreign policy, what do you mean by that?
Mr. Maillard: In other words, you have a particular
line of reasoning in terms of what you're presenting,
and then there are the broader foreign policy initiatives.
Do those two ever come into conflict?
Alyse Nelson:
Certainly, yes. I see what you're saying. Our brand
of foreign policy is democracy and peace-building. We
can't always be or act in the most peaceful ways that
we want to as a government. Sometimes we have to intervene,
or take action that maybe some of the women we work
with in other countries would heavily disagree with.
I've been in a lot of situations, both from people that
I meet at conferences and others. For example, my best
friend is the daughter of the first democratic president
elected in Nigeria. He actually died in the arms of
Thomas Pickering on the eve of his release from prison.
The State Department was coming to him to discuss issues,
and he actually died right then. Some people were skeptical
about his death. Was he poisoned, or was it just because
he was treated so terribly, was he very sick? He was
in prison for a long time after he was elected as the
first democratic president. He was very much like the
Kennedy of Nigeria almost. My friend is one of his daughters.
I actually found out that he had died before she did
because it had come in a cable, and there was some buzz.
She really felt that our government acted too late,
that we needed to really support him and support his
democratic cause before that. She was working in the
U.S. to get international attention to the plight of
her family, but both her mother and father are now dead.
They were great human rights activists and democracy
builders. Here is someone who is my best friend, and
she was really upset because she felt we acted too late. There
have definitely been times where what we do, and what
I believe, may not necessarily be the same thing. It
happens to any large institution, not just in government
or public service. But I think people need to realize
that you're also an individual. You just need to make
that personal connection with people, and that creates
situations where people can learn. I was at a peace
training for women in Croatia and women approached me
and said why are you doing this bombing? They were anti-Milosevic
women, but they still asked why are you bombing us?
There's no answer that I can really give to that. I
don't know what was said, why the actions were taken,
and I'm not going to sit here and tell them in a very
stern and cold way, this is why we took the action.
The only thing that I can do at that point is bring
it to a more personal level and say yeah, I'm really
and take it back a step to the level where you and I
are just people, and that's the system. Do you think
that I made that decision? Is it one person that makes
that decision often? No, it is a series of things. Do
I know everything that went into that? No. Can I explain?
I'm not even going to attempt to explain why your cousin
is dead, or whoever it is. No, I'm not even going to
go there. You just can't.
Chris Sun: What do you feel is the most significant
change that you have brought about in your work with
Vital Voices,?
Alyse Nelson:
Well, I don't like to think that I'm personally bringing
about change but I'm supporting these women to bring
about change. I think it was one of you who actually
said it, in the interview with Theresa Loar, when you
talked about it as being a catalyst. That's precisely
what it is. We can bring the right people together.
Certainly the government is a powerful force. You can
bring governments together, and we can bring high level
officials together on these issues that maybe never
would have come together. But we are not going to be
the people who make the change on the ground. We're
a catalyst to bring the right people together, and build
the right partnerships, and set the right environment
and tone. We leave it to the women, and encourage the
women, and support the women in making the change, and
working with their governments, or their private sector
corporations. I think you might want a specific example,
is that what you're looking for? Probably where I felt
that I had the greatest impact was in working with the
women in Northern Ireland. I know Theresa went into
that a little bit, but it was wonderful to be part of
the peace agreement in Northern Ireland. Certainly it's
not all worked out, but the women there are pretty amazing.
They spent thirty years building infrastructures in
the communities to support peace, and now here it is.
Mostly men are now sitting down at the decision-making
table and putting together a peace agreement, and not
including the women. Us coming in, with the great powers
of the First Lady and Secretary of State, and the Secretary
of State for Northern Ireland Mo Nowlam (phonetic),
and saying that they should include the women, because
the women are the ones who are going to carry this down
to the community, and get consensus and support for
it. Secretary Albright always says that if you really
want democracy, you've got to get the women, because
the women are going to direct the community. They control
it. They control the grassroots community that has to
spread democracy at the very bottom that will rise up.
That's the way democracy has to happen.
Laura Johnson: You've spoken a lot about the
women that you reach. What type of women do you want
to target with your message, and who do you think
responds best to what you have to say?
Alyse Nelson: I really want to target young
women. I mean it may be somewhat biased, because when
I first came into this job, I was always set on trying
to get the young women involved in their future. Here
I was, this twenty-two year-old saying this, and people
didn't always take me seriously. Now they just do it,
because I've been saying it for so long, I don't need
to say it anymore. In Vital Voices we always make sure
that at least thirty percent of the people we include
in our activities are young women under thirty. And
they're always the hit. They may introduce the First
Lady, or present some sort of report from young people
at the conference. I think that the young people that
I've met around the world are the single reason why
I love this work so much, and why I just can't seem
to walk away from it. It just seems impossible to do
that, because of so many young women. I just want
to tell you one story of one young woman. There is this
young woman from Somalia whose family lived in Kenya
when the war broke out, and she was I think twenty-one
years old. She decided that she was going to move back.
Her mother said no, no, no, don't go. She said look,
I'm either going to leave with your blessing or I'm
going to leave in the middle of the night. I'm going
back to Somalia to work with people there. She arrived
there, twenty-one years old, and built an organization,
which fostered peace within the community in Somalia.
She started working in Somalia to build this peace organization,
and eventually she started talking to the militiamen
who were basically boys fifteen, sixteen, seventeen,
etc. She started talking to them on her way to work
and she started to convince them to give up the fight.
She actually started an organization in which she got
a hundred and fifty of these young boys, militiamen,
to turn over their arms, guns, grenades, all of their
weapons, in exchange for an education. She told them
look, you think the future's in that gun, you think
the power is in that gun, when actually the power is
in education and economic development. One day you're
going to realize that. Now, you can give me your gun
now, and I'll keep it for you, and I'll teach you how
to read, write, and speak English. If at any point you
think that this is not a good idea, I'll give it back
to you. But I'm going to keep it, and let's just see
what happens. I talked with her probably about six
months ago, and she told me that all one hundred and
fifty of those boys, former militiamen, are now working
in different community centers. None of them are involved
in the militia anymore. She can't really go back to
Somalia, because the bosses of these boys want her dead.
I think the reason why I find her so amazing is that
she knows this is right, this is what I'm passionate
about. It may not be the smart thing to do, but it's
the right thing to do. It's certainly very dangerous,
but I've met so many young women around the world who
are just doing it. They are on the pulse of political,
social, and economic change around the world, and they're
just doing it. They're not saying, you know, is this
okay that I do this? They're just out there, and they're
doing it, and I wish more young women and young men
in this country would take that initiative. There
are certainly young men like this as well, I've just
gotten to meet all the young women. I don't want to
exclude men, but I think it's the young people that
are a nation's greatest creative resource, and the world's
greatest creative resource. I think that young people
in other countries, in many countries around the world
are really still sort of fighting in the trenches, and
their stories are so inspirational. I think that if
young people in this country, who for the most part
have it pretty good and get to make a lot of their own
decisions and choices in life, knew some of these stories,
they would become enthralled in what's going on in these
countries where change was going on. I think a great
way to bring young people into foreign policy and foreign
affairs is through the story of young people the same
age as them. When I talk with them I find we have the
same interests, but yet our lives we lead are completely
different, and how inspirational their lives are.
Karl Holzknecht: You keep mentioning all these
different women you have met from these completely
different cultures. Despite their diverse backgrounds
do you think there are common issues and traits that
all women share all over the world?
Alyse Nelson: I think so. They
want to live good lives and they want their children
to live good lives. It's not really about them. I think
a lot of these people think that women's issues, or
feminist issues are about them. I don't think that's
really what it's about, at least in the areas that I
work on. I feel, and I think the women around the world
that I've gotten to meet through Vital Voices and the
State Department feel the same way, that it is for and
by women who want a better life for their families,
communities, countries, and the world. They know that
if we can invest in a girls' education, or a loan to
start my small business, or if I can live and not worry
if my children are going to be killed on the street,
or whatever it may be--Then my life, their lives, our
world will be better.
Alicia Weston-Miles: When Theresa Loar talked
with us she was just so positive and just so excited
about her organization. I wanted to know what were
some of the real challenges that were significant
in starting up this organization? I'm sure along the
way there must be some bumps that you hit.
Alyse Nelson: Right. Well it's been a lot of fun working with
someone like Theresa every day. We sort of feed off
each other, and the other people in the office. This
work is certainly very rewarding and a lot of fun, the
people you get to meet and work with are incredible.
The fun is what keeps us going, because it's all very
hard. We have very little resources, as you keep hearing,
for the State Department and foreign policy. When we
first came into the State Department, these issues were
not the issues people were really accepting. We had
to be spinning these issues a little bit. Now I don't
think we need to do that as much because it's already
happening, but just to get people in this system to
buy on to these issues. For example our office in
State Department, our symbol is called S/PICW. We're
part of the Secretary's office, and then we're the President's
Interagency Council on Women. Well, can anyone guess
what our nickname is? The Spice Girls. That is what
people around the building called us. Now none of us
knew this, okay. I went into the office one day, and
this guy is sitting in there, and he starts talking
to me. He said there was going to be a meeting, and
everyone from such and such would be there, and Theresa
Loar and those Spice Girls too. We're trying to create
something new. We're all trying to work in a little
bit different and more creative way, as we like to think
of ourselves. Certainly it is led by someone who is
fresh, enthusiastic, and inspirational. It was pretty
funny.
Aaron Jacobs-Smith: Can you tell us about
a time when you felt that all your hard work had really
paid off because you see that you have really changed
someone's life?
Alyse Nelson: Oh, boy. The job
is really hard and it requires a lot of time and patience
and struggle, but it's so rewarding, and I get to see
the rewards so often. I get to see real change. People
call me from all over the world saying stuff like, "Oh,
my gosh, I have to tell you! We just came back from
the Vital Voices conference in Latin America. We went
back to our home in Haiti, we started the Hundred Haitian
Women for Vital Voices Association, and we have a website.
Now we're going throughout the Caribbean to build this
massive effort, and five new women are going to run
for elective office there. I just wanted to let you
know that." I love it when things like that happen,
and we were just the catalyst. We just told these women,
you can do it. Many of these women will go back to
their homes with a "I'm with Hillary Clinton" type thing,
and they'll use that. They really will, and we encourage
them to because she would want them to do that. I mean
I have so much respect for the First Lady because she
realizes her power. She uses that power to empower other
people. She really does. That to me is true leadership.
The First Lady knows the effect of her presence. If
she visits that little women's micro-credit institution
in India that doesn't have any power, or running water,
and then the government finds out that the First Lady
of the United States is going to come--and that's what
she's going to see of India--they're going to build
that place up, give it electricity, water, etc, and
she knows that. It's really astounding to see that
change when you go out on the pre-advance, and you look
at what the site is that she is going to see, and you
go back, and it's like, it was a little tiny hut, but
now wait a minute, it turned into this palace! Then
she's like, I thought we were going to a hut.(laughter)
Dante Branciforte: Theresa Loar described
the work you do as a partnership, an exchange of advice
and ideas, and can you share with us something you've
learned from other women?
Alyse Nelson: I think the women in
Northern Ireland do the community building better than
anybody else. They're good at listening and negotiating
with other people, and that's something that I think
American women, all Americans, could certainly learn.
These women are so courageous around the world and they
really teach you. Here in the USA you're going to go
to work until such and such time, and you maybe didn't
get to eat dinner until two o'clock in the morning,
but in the end you got to eat dinner, and you got to
sleep in your bed, and your life is good. You get to
work on something you're passionate about, and here's
this woman who's been in prison for three years. But
then she comes out and she's still doing it. So I think
courage is probably the biggest thing that I've learned
from these women. I certainly think it is a partnership.
I don't think Americans have all the answers, certainly
not. Americans, men and women alike have been involved
in some of the trainings that we've done, I think they
get more out of it sometimes than the women actually
do. They come back and they're so enthusiastic, they'll
be like, can I go again sometime? When is the next time
you're going to do one of these things? That's one thing
about this job, is when I ask someone to do favors for
me, they want to do it. It is such good work that people
don't say no. If I ask them, oh, can you do a training
for our women, and they say oh, yes, yes, yes! It's
great to have that energy out there. That's one of the
reasons we know that Vital Voices will go on, in whatever
form, whether in the government or the private sector,
because we've tapped into American women and men who
want to serve. They want to give back. They think they
really are gaining something. It is not just that they're
feeling good, it's that they're getting something; it's
that they're really learning things.
Heather Nelson: We've talked before, and you
told me that you talked to a lot of young people that
are making a lot of money and maybe working in the
computer industry--And these people, because they're
young, they have a lot of idealism and they want to
serve, they want to help.
Alyse Nelson: Yes, definitely. That's a big reason why we
get the support of corporations. For example, McKenzie
and Company is really involved in Vital Voices. It does
strategic consulting for us. They have given us tons
of resources, and one time at one of these meetings
I said to the senior partner, I know that you all love
Vital Voices, that it's all great, but why do you do
this? Just between you and me? Why do you really do
this? Why do you do Vital Voices? She's said, well honestly,
that the women in this company, and the men, because
the women are so excited, love Vital Voices, and get
excited about it. When they're working on chemical companies,
and how to make those chemical companies run better,
every day, they start talking about how they can transfer
those same skills that they've learned on how to make
that company work better to helping this Vital Voices
institution get their message out, or better strategy
for the key issues we're going to deal with every year.
They get so excited about lending those skills to something
that's a good cause. She said to me that the biggest
problem with consulting is that they lose a lot of people,
especially women. I mean no offense to the men here,
but this is straight from this partner, she said that
a lot of times, the women will leave because they want
to go and do something that they can believe in. Commonly
that means they're going to go and take those skills
to run their own business. You know, start a dot.com,
whatever. You'll notice a lot of the women CEOs, like
Heidi Miller, who was the chief financial officer of
Citibank, or Citygroup, the largest financial institution
in the world, she left to go and be one of the senior
people at Priceline.com. Why? Because she's going to
get to really influence that, and that's what's happening
is that a lot of the women are leaving to really have
impact. So if they see that women will stay in this
big corporation by giving a little bit of time to have
impact, to do something they believe in, then they'll
do that. So it's a smart thing for corporations. There's
a lot of signs that point to Vital Voices' potential
to broaden the resources that currently are going to
women's issues, and that it's just going to be something
really welcome in the private sector.
Mr. Maillard: You are 'meaning makers' You're
helping to make meaning, and that is always an essential
ingredient in a life. That's great. What's going to
happen in the future? Hillary Clinton is going to
move on to the Senate, and--
Alyse Nelson: It's looking good.
Mr. Maillard: It's looking very good.
Alyse Nelson: I just think she's a very
strong candidate.
Mr. Maillard: Madeleine Albright obviously
will finish her. This seems to me to be a vital foreign
policy area. But it's an emerging area, and it's a
new area, so the question is, will there be someone
to shepherd what's been started here at the State
Department, while Vital Voices essentially becomes
an NGO?
Alyse Nelson: Well one of the things we're
trying to do is really get the word out, so that there's
private sector support for public sector, that being
the government's, ongoing engagement with Vital Voices.
We've made a lot of inroads and sort of footprints that
really can't be erased. We've really communicated to
the foreign policy community and to all of our embassy
officers, and as Ben said, all these senior people that
will continue with their careers are still going to
be here. That's the majority of the State Department,
people that will be here beyond this administration
and have taken this cause up. There's no office or special
person, but I think Theresa had mentioned to you that
her position of senior coordinator for international
women's issues was created by Congress, so it will stay.
It's not tied to the administration. Theresa herself
is a presidential appointee, so somebody else will take
on that job, unless a new president came in and said
you're doing so good, keep going. It's just a hard job.
She wears many hats, and as she told you, she travels
a lot and it's nice to be with her kids. So that will
be a decision she would have to make. I don't really
know what's going to happen. I think it has had so much
popularity in this country, in the State Department,
and around the world, that people really will be watching
to see if it goes on. This administration has had such
a stellar record on women's issues, both in this country
and around the world. We are really working on telling
that story, and not just because we want to get someone
of the same administration into elective office. That's
not the reason. The reason is, we don't want any of
this stuff to be forgotten in a new administration.
Whoever it may be, we want to make sure the record stands,
this is what happened. If you're not going to do the
same, or build on it, you're going backwards. We're
trying to write a Vital Voices book.
Student: How do you think we can ensure
equality for women at higher levels of government?
Alyse Nelson: In this
country, or around the world?
Student: Both.
Alyse Nelson: I think it has to start at the grassroots level.
It's different in this country than it is around the
world, because this country there are a lot of women
in appointed office, particularly with this administration.
Like the Secretary of Health and Human Services Donna
Shalala, who I know you're going to meet, a little bit
later. But when we look at our elected officials, we
fall pretty short of many countries around the world,
who got the right to vote and run for elected office
a lot later than we did, and are a lot farther ahead
than we are. Which is not too inspiring. There was a
campaign called Why Not a Woman? Which is a White House
project, that was trying to get in the next ten years
a woman into the presidency, or a woman at least as
one of the major party candidates for the presidency.
But quite honestly, it's my belief that there aren't
enough women in those high level positions, like governor
or senator, which men usually use as a jumping off point.
Often a governor or senator will go on, and run for
president, or vice president. There aren't enough women.
The pool is not wide enough. Not that the women like
Dianne Feinstein and Hillary Clinton, aren't qualified;
certainly they are, but the pool needs to be expanded,
there need to be more of them. I think that many
women in this country certainly would want a woman president,
but we want a woman president who's going to do a stellar
job. One of the things that I think is such a gift to
women about Secretary Albright is that people don't
talk about the fact that she's a woman. They may say
she's the first woman Secretary of State from time to
time, or she uses her charm, but they don't use that
as something against her so much. I think that she's
done such a great job, that she's such a gift to women
who say yeah, women can do this job. We can do this
job, and we can do it well. If we're going to have a
woman president she does need to be pretty stellar.
She has to be a candidate who's going to take on the
job realizing "I'll be the first woman president, people
are really going to be looking at me, and the women
around the world, and the men around the world. They'll
be counting on me, can I do this job?" And of course
she could do that job, but it's a lot of pressure. It's
a lot more pressure than I think another president who
was a man would face. Certainly not to be male bashing
at all. I don't mean to be.
Mr. Mailliard: Promoting women, not bashing
men.
Alyse Nelson: Yes, certainly,
because men are important. We have a lot of our allies
in the State Department who are men. Really a lot of
great ones, so-- Maybe one more question.
Mr. Maillard: Let us ask the best piece of
advice question.
Alyse Nelson: Well, I think I've already said it. I've already
said and shown you that I'm pretty passionate about
what I do. With young women my age who are making tons
and tons of money, have these great titles and jobs,
went to Harvard, did the whole thing, really into their
career, we can realize there's a way we can help. You've
got to be passionate about what you do, because you
spend a lot of time at work. You've got to love what
you do. If you love to make money, and you're passionate
about that, I mean, Lord knows, I'm passionate about
spending it. But I'm more passionate certainly about
these women I meet around the world that and in working
with them to improve their lives and the lives of their
countries. You got to have that. I don't think you should
plot your life out and say well, I've got to do this.
You've got to have goals, certainly, but a lot of times
goals shield you from seeing your true passion. I
always go with how I feel rather then what I may think
is necessarily like the smart thing to do. I was going
to go to graduate school, I had a scholarship to do
so, everything was saying, do that, but then I had this
unpaid internship, six months, and then who knows? But
I thought gosh, I would be so happy there. So, every
decision you're going to make, I just think you should
always weigh that. How am I going to feel once I'm there?
You know, am I going to be really passionate? So that's
my advice.
Mr. Maillard: One of the best kept secrets
in the United States is how passionate the people
who are here in government are about what they do.
Alyse Nelson: It definitely takes that.
Mr. Maillard: You've just got to wonder why
it doesn't transfer out to the public. I mean I've
seen it all my life, and that's why I bring these
kids here, so they can see it.
Alyse Nelson: Well this is an incredible program.
You guys are so impressive. I've watched you do all
these different interviews and research, and your questions,
and I see how excited you get. I've got to say that
in my U.S. government class when I was a senior, I kind
of ditched it a lot. And I'll tell you why, it is because
it just did not get me excited, you know? The things
that I was excited about, I did three hundred percent.
But if it wasn't exciting and I didn't really feel like
I was learning, or gaining new access, then why would
I want to. Now here I am, in the middle of it.
This is a great program, I'm sure you all realize
that, but truly. Who knows what I would be doing if
I had the experience you guys do. Do the internships,
work for free if you can. If you've got to work at
night, do whatever you can, but get the experience
that you want. Obviously you've got to worry about
paying bills, but do the internships at the places
where you would want the job? Don't be afraid you
can't do it. Remember, I couldn't work a fax machine,
for like three months. Oh, and I typed with one hand
because I never took typing. But you know, you just
need to be passionate.
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